So, I’ve got a question for you: Have you ever known someone who’s ‘building (or built) a house’? Yeah, they talk all about it at work or at the bar, they talk how they and their spouse had to go to all kinds of meetings to ‘pick colors and appliances’, maybe window treatments and paint colors, and oh I just want to punch them both in the face right now. And I’m really not a violent person. Anyway…You go to the housewarming, on the way there passing the rows and rows of stunningly similar cookie-cutter houses built quickly and swiftly - in this brand new housing development.. There they are, beaming like the dickens… Jenny and Bob are proudly standing in their kitchen or living room or on their fancy deck - telling everyone all about it. They ‘built a house’. Well, I’m here to tell you - no, they really didn’t. Oh, Jenny and Bob...you're so precious, the both of you. I'll however say that it's ok to be constrained by the limits that a production home builder im...